

These conversations are comforting in that they show us that plenty of smart people we know have these lapses. It’s normal for the brain to slow down a bit as you age, just as the body does. But deep down, when you forget a name or wonder what you just went upstairs for, you can’t help but ask yourself, is this normal? Am I getting Alzheimer’s?
Dementia is an overarching term for a collection of symptoms that can be caused by a number of brain disorders affecting memory, relationships, and a person’s ability to function. Alzheimer’s is the most common form of dementia, accounting for 60-80% of dementias. In fact, an estimated 6.7 million Americans aged 65 and older – roughly one in nine – are living with Alzheimer's. Still more people struggle with other types of dementia, such as Lewy Body Dementia, Vascular Dementia, or the later stages of Parkinson’s disease.
Alzheimer’s is caused by an abnormal buildup of two proteins in the brain: amyloid and tau. Amyloid forms plaques around brain cells while tau causes tangles within the cells themselves. The damage begins years before symptoms develop. Over time, the buildup of these proteins starts to interfere with neuron function. As neurons become damaged and die, brain tissue experiences inflammation and shrinkage.
Is it Alzheimer’s, another form of dementia, or simply typical sings of aging? There could be a third possibility: You could have Attention Deficit Syndrome, or ADHD. ADHD has become better understood and more commonly identified in recent decades, but many adults 50 and older have never been diagnosed. One sign that you may have ADHD is if your children have it, since ADHD tends to run in families. Some of the symptoms of ADHD may resemble those of dementia or even normal aging. While ADHD often involves inattention, distractibility, disorganization, and impulsivity, Alzheimer's is characterized by progressive cognitive decline, particularly memory loss.
As scary as it is to take that first step and see a doctor, doing so is critical. Only a doctor can conduct a thorough assessment of your symptoms to differentiate between Alzheimer’s, another type of dementia, ADHD, or typical age-related changes. Your symptoms could also be due to conditions such as depression, urinary tract infections, vitamin deficiencies, thyroid problems, or a brain tumor.
If you are concerned that you or a loved one may have Alzheimer’s, an early diagnosis makes it possible to:
Signs it could be Alzheimer’s | Typical age-related changes |
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Memory loss that interferes with daily life. Forgetting recently learned information and asking the same questions repeatedly. | Occasionally forgetting names or appointments but remembering them later. |
Difficulty concentrating. Challenges making or carrying out a plan or working with numbers. | Making occasional errors while managing finances or paying household bills. |
Difficulty carrying out familiar tasks like making a grocery list or finding your way to the store. | Occasionally needing help to navigate the settings on your TV. |
Losing track of days, dates or even seasons. Being confused about where you are and how you got there. | Forgetting the date or day of the week (easy to do if you are no longer working) but remembering or figuring it out. |
Trouble understanding visual images, such as road signs, gauging distance, and spatial relationships, or determining color and contrast. | Visual changes due to cataracts. |
Trouble following a conversation. Basic vocabulary issues. | Occasionally struggling to find a particular word. |
Misplacing things and not being able to retrace steps to find them. Accusing others of moving or “stealing” something that’s been misplaced. | Misplacing something from time to time but retracing footsteps to look for them. |
Poor judgment and decision making abilities and lapses in hygiene | Making an occasional mistake like forgetting to make an appointment or gas up the car. |
Withdrawal from work or social gatherings due to conversational difficulties | Sometimes, not feeling like going out or attending a particular event. |
Moodiness. Personality changes such as easily becoming suspicious, anxious, or even angry. | Being used to doing things a certain way and getting annoyed when a routine is disrupted. |
Treating early-stage Alzheimer's focuses on slowing disease progression and managing symptoms. Advanced-stage treatment emphasizes comfort, safety, emotional stability, and palliative care. Initially, one or more of the below medications may be prescribed:
More research was being done on the potential risk factors of taking lecanemab and donanemab and on the possibility of giving these medicines preemptively to people who have a parent or sibling with Alzheimer’s and are at an elevated risk for the disease. Research is underway in the following areas:
It is not always possible for a person with Alzheimer’s or any type of dementia to continue living at home, especially if they live alone. However, while they are still independent enough to remain at home, these tips will help with organization and memory issues.
If you or a loved one are experiencing symptoms that you think may indicate Alzheimer’s or dementia, it’s important to take steps now. Call your doctor to schedule a screening and discuss your concerns. If you don’t have a primary care doctor, you can find one here.
This article first appeared in the June 2025 edition of the HealthPerks newsletter.
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